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08 Feb 2009

Acceptable homophobia on TV

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The Café is RTÉ Two's yoof programming - largely inconsequential hilarity that the national public broadcaster's in-house censors don't pay any attention to.

I was accidentally watching it the other evening (just home from work, too lazy to switch to the news or Simpsons) when Aidan Power (the gingerish one who is shorter than Kathryn Thomas on the Lotto game show) referred to David Beckham as a 'ponce'. He had some startled rugby player on his sofa, so it was by way of comparison – rugby players only wince when they've got a leg off; soccer players cry if their hair is mussed, etc. – silly shit for airhead boys, but I was unaccountably offended.

Now, I realise that straight men are annoyed that lots of the indirect ways they interact with each other have been subverted by the dirty faggots and they get all annoyed that it's not PC to use the language of homophobia in their normal public intercourse (oooer, Mrs), but hey, when laddish-paid-by-a-proportion-of-homo-taxes Aidan Power calls someone a ponce on telly, I get offended.

Should homophobic language (if not intent) be acceptable? Or is it just that the words about inclusiveness, acceptance, tolerance and communitarian ideals that are written on the transparent walls of RTÉ's canteen are decorative, and the national broadcaster in fact just accurately re-presents contemporary Ireland in all of its subtle glory? 


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Bloomer

I dunno Miley, I don't think the word ponce particularly means gay any more. Foppish, pretentious and perhaps effeminate, but not gay. For example Ryan Tubridy is a complete ponce, but he's so not gay - as Shirley points out in the GCN viral. Even Wikipedia and Urban Dictionary agree. You're overreacting. Did cute little Aidan blank you in the RTE canteen?

POSTED BY Bloomer 08 Feb 2009


hometime

Aidan Power? I *so* would.

POSTED BY hometime 09 Feb 2009


Queer Duck

But the word 'ponce' has been categorically used as homophobic name-calling, so Meyler has a point. If this happened on the BBC, would it have been so lightly taken. After all, Carol Tatcher has just been fired for comparing someone to a golliwog. She says it was because the guy had hair just like the golliwog on jars of jam that she had as a kid, but golliwog has been used as a racist jibe, just as ponce has been an anti-gay jibe. Aidan Power should apologise.

POSTED BY Queer Duck 09 Feb 2009


dannyzuko

Hold on... isn't Aidan Power gay?

POSTED BY dannyzuko 09 Feb 2009


whoisthis

In all my 18 years I have NEVER heard of ponce meaning gay. Unless he said something that makes it a bit less ambiguous, I would be extremely inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt as to what he meant by it. Modern usage (at least what I've seen of it) doesn't use it like this. Even the word "homophobia" is misused: "homo-" just means "sameness". Does that mean everyone should switch to "homoerotophobia" (the etymologically correct term) and use "homophobia" for "fear of sameness"? No, because modern usage has changed the meaning of homophobia as it seems it has done "ponce".

POSTED BY whoisthis 09 Feb 2009


laura66

There's a line to be drawn and I think ponce is acceptable, faggot and quere aren't . A straight person can be a ponce if they are stuck up their own hole and act like an ass.

POSTED BY laura66 10 Feb 2009


Peter B

I wouldn't associate the term 'ponce' with being gay. I thnk we have to be careful to distinguish between abuse and general larking about.

POSTED BY Peter B 23 Feb 2009


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