28 Jul 2008
August column - All in the genes?
The papers have
been full of a study in Sweden which has shown that lesbians have brains like
straight men, and gay men have brains like straight women. It would have been more interesting if
they’d compared the brains of a few straight women and men against a huge
sample of lesbians and gay men, but there you go – ever the deviants, we are
the ones people want to find out about. The nature of straight men and women is
taken for granted.
It’s not
surprising that this has made headlines. This is a highly political finding, as
it is supposed to show that sexual orientation is innate, which means that the
Iris Robinsons of this world are on a hiding to nothing when they say we can be
cured of our ‘vile and disgusting’ ways.
I suppose that
sexual orientation must have a genetic component – everything else seems to.
Indeed, another piece of research publicised recently seems to explain how
gayness has persisted down the millennia, despite the persecution and the
burnings and Christian fundamentalists trying to cure you of it: a gene for
gayness seem to be linked to a gene for increased fertility in women.
But I can’t help
feeling it has to be a lot more complicated than the Swedish study makes out.
What this tiny study indicated was that straight men and lesbians both have the
right hemispheres of their brain larger than the left, whereas both hemispheres
of straight women and gay men are the same size. But what might this mean?
It is generally
accepted that the right side of the brain controls spatial awareness and the
left side controls speech, and also that men generally tend to be better at the
spatial thing and women at the verbal stuff. Of course, the increased size of
the right hemisphere in straight men/lesbians might have nothing to so with
spatial awareness, and no doubt I’m being a bit reductive here, but tell me
this: if having a larger right brain does mean you have strong spatial
awareness, why would you ever let a gay man or straight woman cut your hair or
decorate your house?
Also, you can’t
help wondering, might it only mean that better spatial awareness might lead to
an increase in right hemisphere size, whereas better verbal ability leaves no
trace? Might the increase in right hemisphere size be explained by practice in
later life? Do we become good at spatial awareness because we tend to have
certain roles thrust upon us, or do we take on those roles because we’re
innately good at them? And what does it matter anyway, if all we do all day is
sit at computers which check our spelling and ensure that our lines are
straight?
Nevertheless, I’m
sure that something as recalcitrant as same-sex orientation (which by the
nature of things you would expect to be bred or beaten out of a population) is
likely to have some sort of complex genetic component. This is supported by the
finding that there were differences between straight men/lesbians as opposed to
gay men/straight women in the bit of the brain called the amygdala, as the
amygdala does not seem to be affected by learning or experience.
But what do these
differences really mean? Moving beyond the stereotypes, do we really think that
lesbians are ‘like’ straight men and gay men ‘like’ straight women? We do not.
Take sex, for example: naturally, I don’t have wide experience of gay men’s
sexuality, but from beady observation, and generalising wildly, it strikes me
as being like straight men’s sexuality, only in spades. Ditto with the girls.
But you also have
to factor in things like youth, hormone levels and cultural expectation,
whereupon you might find that hard-drinking ladettes would approximate to the
male stereotype and a comfortable old gay male couple the female one. Playing away, for example, has never
been sex-specific, as DNA testing of the younger children in families has
proved. It was just harder for women to get away with it.
Even the terms
‘gay’ and ‘straight’ are not precise. Come on, lads, how many supposedly
straight people have you done it with? Besides, sexual
behaviour is a lot more complicated than whom you’re sexually attracted to. How
does this supposed pattern fit with butch/bitch, butch/femme, top/bottom? On
those rare occasions that we talk really openly about sex (which even among
those who talk about it all the time remains a highly secretive discourse) it
becomes clear that, in what really matters to you sexually, you may have much
more in common with someone of a different gender or sexual orientation than
one of your own.
I want to see
more research on what people feel sex is like, to illuminate the genetic findings. Sex is
obviously essential for the continuation of the species, as homophobes never
tire of telling us, as if we didn’t produce children as well. But,
paradoxically, it is often so socially disruptive that great tragedies have
been written about it. It brings us close to god, but it’s also wickedly
unruly. Now, that’s that’s
what I think is really interesting.